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<h2 id="biography">Biography</h2> <h3>Family</h3> <p>Ross was born in <a href="/facts/Tours/NEE7BIFJ">Tours</a>, France. His mother, Elizabeth Baldwin, was the eldest daughter of <a href="/facts/Robert_Baldwin/ylC3Qohq">Robert Baldwin</a>, a <a href="/facts/Toronto/cnXH7881">Toronto</a> lawyer and politician who in the 1840s, together with his political partner <a href="/facts/Louis_Hippolyte_Lafontaine/6GBWsNyU">Louis Hippolyte Lafontaine</a>, led Canada to autonomy from Britain. Ross's father, <a href="/facts/John_Ross_(Canadian_politician)/utBoUXfx">John Ross</a>, was a Baldwinite and a Toronto lawyer who had a very successful political career, serving as Solicitor General for Upper Canada, Attorney General, Speaker of the Legislative Council, President of the Legislative Council, director, and, for a time, president, of the Grand Trunk Railway, and Canadian senator. He became Speaker of the Senate in 1869. </p><p>Ross was the youngest of five children, with two sisters, Mary and Maria, and two brothers, John and Alexander. The family moved to Tours, France, in 1866 while Elizabeth was pregnant with Maria, who was born in 1867, the year of Canadian Confederation. John fulfilled his duties as senator largely in absentia until he was chosen as Speaker of the Senate in 1869, the year of Robbie's birth, making his return to Canada unavoidable. The rest of the family followed in 1870. John died in January 1871 and Elizabeth moved the family to London, England, the following April. </p> <h3>At Cambridge</h3> <p>In 1888, Ross was accepted at <a href="/facts/King%27s_College,_Cambridge/lMWG5JhK">King's College, Cambridge</a>,<a class="footnote-ref" id="fnref:2" href="#fn:2"><sup>2</sup></a> where he became a victim of <a href="/facts/Bullying/PUdL7WtY">bullying</a>, probably because of his <a href="/facts/Human_sexuality/fjnqcFxP">sexuality</a>, of which he made no secret, and perhaps also his outspoken journalism in the university paper. Ross caught <a href="/facts/Pneumonia/Jw0KquTA">pneumonia</a> after being dunked in a fountain by other students who had, according to Ross, the full support of <a href="/facts/Arthur_Augustus_Tilley/o5KUbhd2">Arthur Augustus Tilley</a>, the Junior Tutor of King's.<a class="footnote-ref" id="fnref:3" href="#fn:3"><sup>3</sup></a> After recovering, he fought for an apology from his fellow students, which he received, but he also sought the dismissal of Tilley. The college refused to punish Tilley (though he resigned as Junior Tutor) and Ross dropped out. Soon after that, he chose to "<a href="/facts/Coming_out/MoxnWaot">reveal his sexuality</a>" to his parents. </p> <h3>Oscar Wilde</h3> <p>Ross found work as a journalist and critic but he did not escape scandal. He is believed to have become Oscar Wilde's first male lover in 1886, even before he went to Cambridge. In 1893, a few years before Wilde's imprisonment, Ross had a sexual relationship with a boy of sixteen, the son of friends. The boy confessed to his parents that he had engaged in sexual activity with Ross and also admitted to a sexual encounter with <a href="/facts/Lord_Alfred_Douglas/ecmrNu77">Lord Alfred Douglas</a> while he was a guest at Ross's house. After a good deal of panic and frantic meetings with solicitors, the parents were persuaded not to go to the police, since at that time their son might be seen as equally guilty and face the possibility of going to prison.<a class="footnote-ref" id="fnref:4" href="#fn:4"><sup>4</sup></a> </p><p>On 1 March 1895, Wilde, Douglas, and Ross approached a solicitor, Charles Octavius Humphreys, with the intention of suing the <a href="/facts/John_Douglas,_9th_Marquess_of_Queensberry/wjLhDkVK">Marquess of Queensberry</a>, Douglas's father, for <a href="/facts/Criminal_libel/Vq0SePTB">criminal libel</a>. Humphreys asked Wilde directly whether there was any truth to Queensberry's allegations of homosexual activity between Wilde and Douglas, to which Wilde replied “No.” Humphreys applied for a warrant for Queensberry's arrest, and approached <a href="/facts/Edward_Clarke_(barrister)/LytBgP5e">Sir Edward Clarke</a> and <a href="/facts/Charles_Willie_Mathews/sIpn7e10">Charles Willie Mathews</a> to represent Wilde. His son, <a href="/facts/Travers_Humphreys/IpbaoK1k">Travers Humphreys</a>, appeared as junior counsel for the prosecution in the subsequent case of <a href="/facts/Oscar_Wilde/fRCAnvGk"><i>Wilde v Queensberry</i></a>.<a class="footnote-ref" id="fnref:5" href="#fn:5"><sup>5</sup></a> </p><p>The libel hearings unearthed evidence that caused Wilde to drop his charges and led to an arrest warrant for him on charges of <a href="/facts/Sodomy/37Jgb7mr">sodomy</a> and <a href="/facts/Gross_indecency/76pChdnq">gross indecency</a>. Ross found Wilde at the Cadogan Hotel, in <a href="/facts/Knightsbridge/KJlC26Vf">Knightsbridge</a>, with <a href="/facts/Reginald_Turner/kjAJd2VW">Reginald Turner</a>. Both men advised Wilde to get a boat-train to France, but he refused. His mother had advised him to stay and fight, and Wilde reportedly said: "The train has gone. It's too late."<a class="footnote-ref" id="fnref:6" href="#fn:6"><sup>6</sup></a> Following Wilde's imprisonment in 1895, Ross went abroad but he returned to offer both financial and emotional support to Wilde during his last years. Ross remained loyal to Wilde and was with him when he died in Paris on 30 November 1900. </p> <h3>After Oscar Wilde</h3> <p>Ross became Wilde's <a href="/facts/Literary_executor/Y2SgIgnP">literary executor</a>, which meant that he had to track down and purchase the <a href="/facts/Copyright/7GHEWEx9">rights</a> to all of Wilde's texts, which had been sold off along with Wilde's possessions when Wilde was declared <a href="/facts/Bankruptcy/EAztPnMf">bankrupt</a>. It also meant fighting the rampant trade in <a href="/facts/Black_market/HDL3tQDz">black market</a> copies of his books and, in particular, books, usually <a href="/facts/Erotic_literature/JP5NkqRQ">erotic</a>, that Wilde did not write, but which were published illegally under his name. </p><p>Ross was assisted in this task by <a href="/facts/Christopher_Sclater_Millard/PSssbenz">Christopher Sclater Millard</a>, who compiled a definitive bibliography of Wilde's writings. Ross gave Wilde's sons the rights to all their father's works along with the <a href="/facts/Royalties/8caVPHCP">money earned</a> from their publication or performance while he was executor. In 1905, he attended the first performances in England of Wilde's <i><a href="/facts/Salome_(play)/yd0bpQUk">Salome</a></i> at the Bijou Theatre. One of the actors was Frederick Stanley Smith (1885–1953) with whom Ross had a relationship.<a class="footnote-ref" id="fnref:7" href="#fn:7"><sup>7</sup></a> </p><p>About 1902, he arranged for the transfer of Wilde's remains "from the obscure Bagneux cemetery to Père Lachaise, the most celebrated cemetery in France" and later instructed his heirs to have his own ashes buried in Wilde's tomb.<a class="footnote-ref" id="fnref:8" href="#fn:8"><sup>8</sup></a> </p> <p>In 1908, some years after Wilde's death, Ross produced the definitive edition of his works. Ross was also responsible for commissioning <a href="/facts/Jacob_Epstein/sQ4Uj9EP">Jacob Epstein</a> to produce the sculpture that can now be seen on <a href="/facts/Oscar_Wilde%27s_tomb/R8NLDgbn">Wilde's tomb</a>. He even requested that Epstein design a small compartment for Ross's own ashes. As a result of his faithfulness to Wilde even in death, Ross was vindictively pursued by <a href="/facts/Lord_Alfred_Douglas/ecmrNu77">Lord Alfred Douglas</a>, who repeatedly attempted to have him arrested and tried for homosexual conduct. </p><p>From 1901 to 1908, in personal and professional partnership with the art critic <a href="/facts/More_Adey/mUcXbIGB">More Adey</a>, Ross managed the Carfax Gallery, a small commercial gallery in London co-founded by John Fothergill and the artist <a href="/facts/William_Rothenstein/PjXNDGWp">William Rothenstein</a>.<a class="footnote-ref" id="fnref:9" href="#fn:9"><sup>9</sup></a> The Carfax held exhibitions of works by such artists as <a href="/facts/Aubrey_Beardsley/FagaDNU8">Aubrey Beardsley</a>, <a href="/facts/William_Blake/YQMnyh0G">William Blake</a>, <a href="/facts/Sylvia_Gosse/uWj9YwFH">Sylvia Gosse</a>, and <a href="/facts/John_Singer_Sargent/M50X8QG8">John Singer Sargent</a>.<a class="footnote-ref" id="fnref:10" href="#fn:10"><sup>10</sup></a> After leaving the Carfax, Ross worked as an art critic for <i><a href="/facts/The_Morning_Post/6TWhqIvr">The Morning Post</a></i>.<a class="footnote-ref" id="fnref:11" href="#fn:11"><sup>11</sup></a> </p><p>During the <a href="/facts/First_World_War/vITTUanQ">First World War</a>, Ross mentored a group of young, mostly homosexual, poets and artists including <a href="/facts/Siegfried_Sassoon/8EfNcNFw">Siegfried Sassoon</a> and <a href="/facts/Wilfred_Owen/Qh3RurUo">Wilfred Owen</a>. He was also a close friend of Wilde's sons <a href="/facts/Vyvyan_Holland/AyIaJdNP">Vyvyan Holland</a> and <a href="/facts/Cyril_Holland/qg0gJaXv">Cyril Holland</a>. </p><p>In early 1918, during the <a href="/facts/German_spring_offensive/fShURo0M">German spring offensive</a>, <a href="/facts/Noel_Pemberton_Billing/CatfRVXs">Noel Pemberton Billing</a>, a right-wing member of Parliament, published an article entitled "The Cult of the Clitoris" in which he accused members of Ross's circle of being among 47,000 homosexuals who were betraying the nation to the Germans. <a href="/facts/Maud_Allan/AnMm3jCc">Maud Allan</a>, an actress who had played Wilde's Salome in a performance authorised by Ross, was identified as a member of the "cult". She unsuccessfully sued Billing for libel, causing a national sensation in Britain. The incident brought embarrassing attention to Ross and his associates. </p><p>Later, in 1918, Ross was preparing to travel to <a href="/facts/Melbourne/EHY9YxI0">Melbourne</a>, to open an exhibition at the <a href="/facts/National_Gallery_of_Victoria/LIH4kFdg">National Gallery of Victoria</a>, when he died suddenly in London on 5 October 1918.<a class="footnote-ref" id="fnref:12" href="#fn:12"><sup>12</sup></a> </p><p>In 1950, on the 50th anniversary of Wilde's death, an urn containing Ross's ashes was placed into Wilde's tomb in <a href="/facts/P%C3%A8re_Lachaise_Cemetery/cqgqNSzf">Père Lachaise Cemetery</a> in Paris.<a class="footnote-ref" id="fnref:13" href="#fn:13"><sup>13</sup></a> </p> <h2 id="rosss-work">Ross's work</h2> <p>Ross was able to rely on an allowance and then an inheritance from his wealthy family, leaving him free to pursue his interests. His main contribution to literature lies in his work, not only as Wilde's executor, but also, earlier, as a friendly but critical reader of many of Wilde's texts. If Ross is to be believed, he frequently suggested changes and improvements. </p><p>Ross also tried his hand as a writer. He provided an introduction to Wilde's play <i><a href="/facts/Salome_(play)/yd0bpQUk">Salome</a></i>. His book <i>Masques and Phases</i> is a collection of previously published short stories and reviews. As an art critic, Ross was highly critical of the <a href="/facts/Post-Impressionism/18PBYXzn">post-impressionist</a> painters. </p> <h2 id="appearances-in-media">Appearances in media</h2> <ul><li><a href="/facts/Florence_Earle_Coates/YAaK0zHf">Florence Earle Coates</a> dedicated her poem To R. R.: On Rereading the "De Profundis" of Oscar Wilde (1912) to him.</li> <li>Ross has a brief appearance in the <a href="/facts/Pat_Barker/TeMyfr59">Pat Barker</a> novel <i><a href="/facts/The_Eye_in_the_Door/tK5wffNV">The Eye in the Door</a></i>. His part in Noel Pemberton Billing's agitation against him and his circle is mentioned throughout as a backdrop to the main story.</li> <li>The protagonist of <a href="/facts/Timothy_Findley/LIfQg98Q">Timothy Findley</a>'s novel <i><a href="/facts/The_Wars/IulU2VsC">The Wars</a></i> (1977) is named after him.<a class="footnote-ref" id="fnref:14" href="#fn:14"><sup>14</sup></a> The historical Ross appears as a character in Findley's novel <i><a href="/facts/Pilgrim_(Timothy_Findley_novel)/8NsYkoNM">Pilgrim</a></i>.</li> <li>In films he has been portrayed by <a href="/facts/Dennis_Price/qIG9TYW0">Dennis Price</a> in <i><a href="/facts/Oscar_Wilde_(film)/GnQF0k4l">Oscar Wilde</a></i> (1960), <a href="/facts/Emrys_Jones_(actor)/qMzUP2fY">Emrys Jones</a> in <i><a href="/facts/The_Trials_of_Oscar_Wilde/be6jBFcv">The Trials of Oscar Wilde</a></i> (1960), <a href="/facts/Michael_Sheen/DeXqy4Va">Michael Sheen</a> in <i><a href="/facts/Wilde_(film)/MLulTbUS">Wilde</a></i> (1997), <a href="/facts/Edwin_Thomas_(actor)/Jgjbs3ju">Edwin Thomas</a> in <i><a href="/facts/The_Happy_Prince_(2018_film)/sjDT9Iug">The Happy Prince</a></i> (2018), and by <a href="/facts/Simon_Russell_Beale/V5JTHrhP">Simon Russell Beale</a> in <i><a href="/facts/Benediction_(film)/HL6AhjMp">Benediction</a></i> (2022).</li> <li>Ross is a major character in <a href="/facts/David_Hare_(playwright)/gmWTV6ga">David Hare</a>'s play <i><a href="/facts/The_Judas_Kiss_(play)/mtaP5Jo3">The Judas Kiss</a></i> (1998).<a class="footnote-ref" id="fnref:15" href="#fn:15"><sup>15</sup></a></li> <li>Robert Ross has a major role in <a href="/facts/Dave_Sim/VQLvuLSb">Dave Sim</a>'s <a href="/facts/Graphic_novel/sWyy9KAg">graphic novel</a> <i><a href="/facts/Cerebus_the_Aardvark/dtzG7K5g">Melmoth</a></i>, which chronicles the final days and death of Wilde.</li></ul> <h3>Additional sources</h3> <ul><li>Neil McKenna, <i>The Secret Life of Oscar Wilde</i> (2003)</li> <li>Margery Ross, ed. <i>Robert Ross. Friend of Friends. Letters to Robert Ross, Art Critic and Writer, together with extracts from his published articles.</i> (1952)</li></ul> <h2 id="external-links">External links</h2> <ul><li><a href="https://www.gutenberg.org/ebooks/author/5421">Works by Robbie Ross</a> at <a href="/facts/Project_Gutenberg/2l0R6GgQ">Project Gutenberg</a></li> <li><a href="https://archive.org/search.php?query=%28%28subject%3A%22Ross%2C%20Robert%20Baldwin%22%20OR%20subject%3A%22Ross%2C%20Robert%20B%2E%22%20OR%20subject%3A%22Ross%2C%20R%2E%20B%2E%22%20OR%20subject%3A%22Robert%20Baldwin%20Ross%22%20OR%20subject%3A%22Robert%20B%2E%20Ross%22%20OR%20subject%3A%22R%2E%20B%2E%20Ross%22%20OR%20subject%3A%22Ross%2C%20Robert%22%20OR%20subject%3A%22Robert%20Ross%22%20OR%20creator%3A%22Robert%20Baldwin%20Ross%22%20OR%20creator%3A%22Robert%20B%2E%20Ross%22%20OR%20creator%3A%22R%2E%20B%2E%20Ross%22%20OR%20creator%3A%22R%2E%20Baldwin%20Ross%22%20OR%20creator%3A%22Ross%2C%20Robert%20Baldwin%22%20OR%20creator%3A%22Ross%2C%20Robert%20B%2E%22%20OR%20creator%3A%22Ross%2C%20R%2E%20B%2E%22%20OR%20creator%3A%22Ross%2C%20R%2E%20Baldwin%22%20OR%20creator%3A%22Robert%20Ross%22%20OR%20creator%3A%22Ross%2C%20Robert%22%20OR%20title%3A%22Robert%20Baldwin%20Ross%22%20OR%20title%3A%22Robert%20B%2E%20Ross%22%20OR%20title%3A%22R%2E%20B%2E%20Ross%22%20OR%20title%3A%22Robert%20Ross%22%20OR%20description%3A%22Robert%20Baldwin%20Ross%22%20OR%20description%3A%22Robert%20B%2E%20Ross%22%20OR%20description%3A%22R%2E%20B%2E%20Ross%22%20OR%20description%3A%22Ross%2C%20Robert%20Baldwin%22%20OR%20description%3A%22Ross%2C%20Robert%20B%2E%22%20OR%20description%3A%22Robert%20Ross%22%20OR%20description%3A%22Ross%2C%20Robert%22%29%20OR%20%28%221869-1918%22%20AND%20Ross%29%29%20AND%20%28-mediatype:software%29">Works by or about Robbie Ross</a> at the <a href="/facts/Internet_Archive/PHStU8Lo">Internet Archive</a></li> <li><a href="https://librivox.org/author/6219">Works by Robbie Ross</a> at <a href="/facts/LibriVox/FF71kJKC">LibriVox</a> (public domain audiobooks) </li> <li><a href="https://www.oxforddnb.com/view/10.1093/ref:odnb/9780198614128.001.0001/odnb-9780198614128-e-37915">At Oxford DNB</a></li></ul> <h2 id="references">References</h2> <ol> <li id="fn:1"><p>Fryer, Jonathan (2000). Robbie Ross: Oscar Wilde's True Love. London: Constable & Robinson. ISBN 0-09-479770-6.. (U.S. Title: Robbie Ross: Oscar Wilde's Devoted Friend). <a href="0-09-479770-6" target="_blank">0-09-479770-6</a> <a href="#fnref:1" class="footnote-back-ref">↩</a></p></li> <li id="fn:2"><p>"Ross, Robert Baldwin (RS888RB)". A Cambridge Alumni Database. University of Cambridge. <a href="http://venn.lib.cam.ac.uk/cgi-bin/search-2018.pl?sur=&suro=w&fir=&firo=c&cit=&cito=c&c=all&z=all&tex=RS888RB&sye=&eye=&col=all&maxcount=50" target="_blank">http://venn.lib.cam.ac.uk/cgi-bin/search-2018.pl?sur=&suro=w&fir=&firo=c&cit=&cito=c&c=all&z=all&tex=RS888RB&sye=&eye=&col=all&maxcount=50</a> <a href="#fnref:2" class="footnote-back-ref">↩</a></p></li> <li id="fn:3"><p>N. John Hall and Nina Burgis, ed., The Letters of Anthony Trollope, Vol. 1, p. 986 (and see footnote <a href="https://books.google.com/books?id=CYCaAAAAIAAJ&pg=PA986" target="_blank">https://books.google.com/books?id=CYCaAAAAIAAJ&pg=PA986</a> <a href="#fnref:3" class="footnote-back-ref">↩</a></p></li> <li id="fn:4"><p>Richard Ellmann. (1987). Oscar Wilde. <a href="#fnref:4" class="footnote-back-ref">↩</a></p></li> <li id="fn:5"><p>Linder, Douglas O. "An Account of the Three Trials of Oscar Wilde". law2.umkc.edu. Retrieved 3 June 2021. <a href="http://law2.umkc.edu/faculty/projects/ftrials/wilde/wildeaccount.html" target="_blank">http://law2.umkc.edu/faculty/projects/ftrials/wilde/wildeaccount.html</a> <a href="#fnref:5" class="footnote-back-ref">↩</a></p></li> <li id="fn:6"><p>About Oscar Wilde. oscarwildes.de. <a href="http://oscarwildes.de/about-oscar-wilde" target="_blank">http://oscarwildes.de/about-oscar-wilde</a> <a href="#fnref:6" class="footnote-back-ref">↩</a></p></li> <li id="fn:7"><p>Roberts, Maria (2016) Let Them Say: The Life of Frederick Stanley Smith <a href="#fnref:7" class="footnote-back-ref">↩</a></p></li> <li id="fn:8"><p>Cole, Connolly (14 January 2001). "Buried in Oscar's Tomb [Review of Jonathan Fryer, Oscar Wilde's Devoted Friend]". New York Times. Retrieved 31 October 2022. <a href="https://archive.nytimes.com/www.nytimes.com/books/01/01/14/reviews/010114.14colelt.html" target="_blank">https://archive.nytimes.com/www.nytimes.com/books/01/01/14/reviews/010114.14colelt.html</a> <a href="#fnref:8" class="footnote-back-ref">↩</a></p></li> <li id="fn:9"><p>Borland, Maureen (1990). Wilde's Devoted Friend: A Life of Robert Ross 1869–1918. Oxford: Lennard. ISBN 1-85291-085-2.[page needed] <a href="1-85291-085-2" target="_blank">1-85291-085-2</a> <a href="#fnref:9" class="footnote-back-ref">↩</a></p></li> <li id="fn:10"><p>Shaw, Samuel (August 2010). 'EQUIVOCAL POSITIONS': THE INFLUENCE OF WILLIAM ROTHENSTEIN, c.1890-1910 (PDF) (PhD thesis). The University of York. Retrieved 8 April 2024. <a href="http://etheses.whiterose.ac.uk/1106/1/EquivocalPositionsWilliamRothenstein.pdf" target="_blank">http://etheses.whiterose.ac.uk/1106/1/EquivocalPositionsWilliamRothenstein.pdf</a> <a href="#fnref:10" class="footnote-back-ref">↩</a></p></li> <li id="fn:11"><p>"Robert Baldwin Ross". www.thecanadianencyclopedia.ca. Retrieved 11 May 2024. <a href="https://www.thecanadianencyclopedia.ca/en/article/robert-baldwin-ross" target="_blank">https://www.thecanadianencyclopedia.ca/en/article/robert-baldwin-ross</a> <a href="#fnref:11" class="footnote-back-ref">↩</a></p></li> <li id="fn:12"><p>Borland, Maureen (1990). Wilde's Devoted Friend: A Life of Robert Ross 1869–1918. Oxford: Lennard. ISBN 1-85291-085-2.[page needed] <a href="1-85291-085-2" target="_blank">1-85291-085-2</a> <a href="#fnref:12" class="footnote-back-ref">↩</a></p></li> <li id="fn:13"><p>"The Scandal of the Tomb of Oscar Wilde". Oscar Wilde House. 29 November 2019. Retrieved 31 October 2022. <a href="https://oscarwildehouse.com/2021/11/29/the-scandal-of-the-tomb-of-oscar-wilde/" target="_blank">https://oscarwildehouse.com/2021/11/29/the-scandal-of-the-tomb-of-oscar-wilde/</a> <a href="#fnref:13" class="footnote-back-ref">↩</a></p></li> <li id="fn:14"><p>Brian Busby, Character Parts: Who's Really Who in Canlit, Toronto: Knopf, 2003. p. 221-222. ISBN 0-676-97579-8 <a href="/wiki/Brian_Busby" target="_blank">/wiki/Brian_Busby</a> <a href="#fnref:14" class="footnote-back-ref">↩</a></p></li> <li id="fn:15"><p>Cote, David (25 April 2016). "The Judas Kiss". TimeOut. Retrieved 31 October 2022. <a href="https://www.timeout.com/newyork/theater/the-judas-kiss" target="_blank">https://www.timeout.com/newyork/theater/the-judas-kiss</a> <a href="#fnref:15" class="footnote-back-ref">↩</a></p></li> </ol>