Don't Hurt My Little Sister

<h2 id="background-and-lyrics">Background and lyrics</h2>

Wilson originally wrote "Don't Hurt My Little Sister" for <a href="/facts/The_Ronettes/IL1JKB57">the Ronettes</a>, modelling the chords and melodies after the hits of their producer <a href="/facts/Phil_Spector/SuAgFztt">Phil Spector</a>.<a class="footnote-ref" id="fnref:3" href="#fn:3">3</a> Asked if the song was "written about anyone in particular" in a 2022 interview, <a href="/facts/Mike_Love/y5Re5z7l">Mike Love</a> responded:

<blockquote>Not that I remember. The Wilson brothers didn’t have a sister, so that idea had to come from somebody else … I had three. It was made up but based on the protective feeling that a brother would have. It was a fun song, a neat song. It wasn't a hit song, but it certainly was a great album tune.<a class="footnote-ref" id="fnref:4" href="#fn:4">4</a></blockquote>
The lyrical inspiration is often attributed to Wilson's conflicted infatuation for his girlfriend <a href="/facts/Marilyn_Wilson/RAJwBsI5">Marilyn</a> and her sisters Diane and Barbara Rovell (the girls were aged 16, 17, and 13, respectively, while Wilson was 22).<a class="footnote-ref" id="fnref:5" href="#fn:5">5</a><a class="footnote-ref" id="fnref:6" href="#fn:6">6</a> According to Wilson's <a href="/facts/I_Am_Brian_Wilson/Y0zwVQ4o">2016 memoir</a>, it was written "about me and the Rovells. I wrote it from the perspective of one of them telling me not to treat another one of them badly."<a class="footnote-ref" id="fnref:7" href="#fn:7">7</a>
Biographer <a href="/facts/Peter_Ames_Carlin/9hwWqpHj">Peter Ames Carlin</a> wrote that the subject matter "recounts Diane Rovell's pointed advice from the early (and surreptitious) days of Brian and Marilyn's affair, only with an uncomfortable fraternal ardor: 'Why don’t you love her like her big brother?'"<a class="footnote-ref" id="fnref:8" href="#fn:8">8</a> Music journalist Alice Bolin referred to it as one of the "creepier" songs on Today!, "in which the narrator chides a boy who has done his little sister wrong. 'Why don’t you kiss her,' he says a little too insistently ... As far as vaguely incestuous pop songs go, 'Don’t Hurt My Little Sister' was probably composed with innocent intentions. But we do know that in his early 20s Wilson had an interest in younger women."<a class="footnote-ref" id="fnref:9" href="#fn:9">9</a>

<h2 id="composition">Composition</h2>
Journalist Scott Interrante wrote, "while it may not be the most original composition on Today!, it's not without its interesting moments or sophisticated craft. Following the structure set up in Spector’s '<a href="/facts/Be_My_Baby/NIX43PGU">Be My Baby</a>', the verses of 'Don’t Hurt My Little Sister' are simple and straightforward, while the pre-choruses are harmonically adventurous. But the chorus here, too, moves far away from the home key of B-flat in a sequence of chords led by a call-and-response vocal chanting."<a class="footnote-ref" id="fnref:10" href="#fn:10">10</a>
Wilson later recycled the chord progression of the song's refrain for the band's "<a href="/facts/California_Girls/zDbI0pYg">California Girls</a>" (1965).<a class="footnote-ref" id="fnref:11" href="#fn:11">11</a>

<h2 id="things-are-changing-for-the-better">"Things are Changing (For the Better)"</h2>
Wilson submitted the song to Phil Spector for his approval. He had previously declined Wilson's "<a href="/facts/Don%2527t_Worry_Baby/NDsf68Na">Don't Worry Baby</a>", but agreed to record "Don't Hurt My Little Sister".<a class="footnote-ref" id="fnref:12" href="#fn:12">12</a> According to biographer <a href="/facts/David_Leaf/PLhWjvgF">David Leaf</a>,

<blockquote> After submitting the song to Phil Spector, Brian waited for a response. When Spector invited Brian to his hotel room for a talk, Brian found out that things had gone awry. There was a piano in the room, and Spector played Brian “Don’t Hurt My Little Sister” which Spector had unilaterally revamped into "Things Are Changing (For The Better)." ... That's as close as Brian and Phil ever came to working together.<a class="footnote-ref" id="fnref:13" href="#fn:13">13</a></blockquote>
Wilson was invited to perform piano on the song's recording, but was thrown out of the session by Spector due to "substandard playing".<a class="footnote-ref" id="fnref:14" href="#fn:14">14</a> Spector finished a backing track, but scrapped the song. This backing track was later revived and given to <a href="/facts/The_Blossoms/cmFHC3Vs">the Blossoms</a>.<a class="footnote-ref" id="fnref:15" href="#fn:15">15</a> This new version, featuring <a href="/facts/Darlene_Love/d8V3gCpr">Darlene Love</a> on vocals, was a public service announcement for "equal-opportunity employment", a campaign by President <a href="/facts/Lyndon_B._Johnson/PKNthHX1">Lyndon B. Johnson</a> to "correct the inequality in employment opportunities between whites and minorities including blacks in the U.S.”<a class="footnote-ref" id="fnref:16" href="#fn:16">16</a> The backing track was reused for versions by <a href="/facts/The_Supremes/2rN8DymP">the Supremes</a> and <a href="/facts/Jay_and_the_Americans/g4bo8wwP">Jay and the Americans</a>.

<h2 id="recording">Recording</h2>
"Don't Hurt My Little Sister" was recorded during the sessions for <a href="/facts/The_Beach_Boys%2527_Christmas_Album/eTw7xoXS">The Beach Boys' Christmas Album</a> on June 22, 1964 at <a href="/facts/United_Western_Recorders/WgC18tb4">Western Studio</a>.<a class="footnote-ref" id="fnref:17" href="#fn:17">17</a>

<h2 id="personnel">Personnel</h2>
As documented by Craig Slowinski.<a class="footnote-ref" id="fnref:18" href="#fn:18">18</a><a class="footnote-ref" id="fnref:19" href="#fn:19">19</a>
The Beach Boys

<ul><li><a href="/facts/Al_Jardine/FRWkJDy2">Al Jardine</a> – backing vocals, electric <a href="/facts/Bass_guitar/lbeoAatH">bass guitar</a></li>
<li><a href="/facts/Mike_Love/y5Re5z7l">Mike Love</a> – lead and backing vocals</li>
<li><a href="/facts/Brian_Wilson/lHqBFEUI">Brian Wilson</a> – lead and backing vocals, <a href="/facts/Upright_piano/lRI60lQK">upright piano</a>, producer</li>
<li><a href="/facts/Carl_Wilson/ewy0VSWt">Carl Wilson</a> – backing vocals, <a href="/facts/Twelve-string_guitar/CNprTjkq">12-string</a> lead/rhythm guitar</li>
<li><a href="/facts/Dennis_Wilson/1xrQgFYb">Dennis Wilson</a> – backing vocals, <a href="/facts/Tambourine/e6IwRVRd">tambourine</a></li></ul>
Additional musicians and production staff

<ul><li><a href="/facts/Hal_Blaine/lW7lf9Rd">Hal Blaine</a> – drums</li>
<li><a href="/facts/Chuck_Britz/rMETQeTU">Chuck Britz</a> – engineer</li>
<li>John Gray – <a href="/facts/Grand_piano/lRI60lQK">grand piano</a></li>
<li>Ray Pohlman – <a href="/facts/Baritone_guitar/3KBlxgkl">baritone rhythm guitar</a></li>
<li><a href="/facts/Tommy_Tedesco/mvSr4qYj">Tommy Tedesco</a> – rhythm guitar</li></ul>
<h2 id="cover-versions">Cover versions</h2>
See also: <a href="/facts/List_of_cover_versions_of_Beach_Boys_songs/N5QpPBaI">List of cover versions of Beach Boys songs</a>
As "Don't Hurt My Little Sister"

<ul><li>1965 – <a href="/facts/The_Surfaris/9WCRJFo4">The Surfaris</a></li>
<li>1996 – <a href="/facts/Shonen_Knife/xGetQTI6">Shonen Knife</a>, <a href="/facts/The_Birds_%2526_the_B-Sides/j5kWHmy2">The Birds & the B-Sides</a></li></ul>
As "Things Are Changing (For the Better)"

<ul><li>1965 – <a href="/facts/The_Blossoms/cmFHC3Vs">The Blossoms</a> (as "Things Are Changing (For the Better)")</li>
<li>1965 – <a href="/facts/The_Supremes/2rN8DymP">The Supremes</a> (as "Things Are Changing")</li>
<li>1965 – <a href="/facts/Jay_and_the_Americans/g4bo8wwP">Jay and the Americans</a> (as "Things Are Changing")</li></ul>
<h2 id="see-also">See also</h2>
<ul><li>"<a href="/facts/Wouldn%2527t_It_Be_Nice/puYXdx7q">Wouldn't It Be Nice</a>" – another song inspired by Wilson's infatuation with Diane Rovell</li></ul>

Citations

Bibliography

<ul><li>Badman, Keith (2004). <a href="https://archive.org/details/beachboysdefinit0000badm">The Beach Boys: The Definitive Diary of America's Greatest Band, on Stage and in the Studio</a>. Backbeat Books. <a href="/facts/ISBN_(identifier)/15AdSPa9">ISBN</a> 978-0-87930-818-6.</li>
<li><a href="/facts/Peter_Ames_Carlin/9hwWqpHj">Carlin, Peter Ames</a> (2006). <a href="https://books.google.com/books?id=eYyovo_AbqAC">Catch a Wave: The Rise, Fall, and Redemption of the Beach Boys' Brian Wilson</a>. Rodale. <a href="/facts/ISBN_(identifier)/15AdSPa9">ISBN</a> 978-1-59486-320-2.</li>
<li><a href="/facts/Brian_Wilson/lHqBFEUI">Wilson, Brian</a>; <a href="/facts/Ben_Greenman/thtJWhAf">Greenman, Ben</a> (2016). <a href="https://books.google.com/books?id=9CmiBQAAQBAJ">I Am Brian Wilson: A Memoir</a>. Da Capo Press. <a href="/facts/ISBN_(identifier)/15AdSPa9">ISBN</a> 978-0-306-82307-7.</li></ul>

<h2 id="references">References</h2>

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